Ben Wa Balls?
Ben who? I hear you ask. Well, let me explain. They are little pair of weighty balls. Balls from heaven that will transform your sex life! Sized like small marbles, they were originally designed to help strengthen the female pelvic floor muscles. By inserting them into your vaginal cavity, your pelvic muscles instinctively contract to hold them in place and prevent them from falling back out. This exercises and ultimately tightens the pelvic muscles without you needing to do very much at all.
It was soon realized that wearing these little gems actually felt pretty damn good and the manufacturers changed the design to reflect their new usage, as a sex toy. Originally the balls were set on a long piece of string for easy retrieval but now, most Ben Wa ball sets are two loose balls. This means they can be used for pleasure during sex, in addition to their pelvic floor benefits.
Simply slip the balls in one at a time, and your muscles will hold them in place. The feeling of the balls jiggling around can be great fun whilst walking around town! A secret pleasure that only you know about. Back at home, adding a vibrator or better still, a penis will take your enjoyment to new heights. When you have sex with Ben Wa Balls inserted, both you and your partner with get a thrill from them. For you, It will feel like you have butterflies in your stomach. For him, he will enjoy the sensation of the balls massaging the head of his penis. It’s a win/win!
Some girls worry about the balls getting lost inside them. Trust me…it is impossible. There is nowhere for them to go, except to come out the same way they went in. When you want the balls out just stand up, relax your muscles, and they will reappear. At most, you may have to do a little jiggle and out they’ll pop! Ben Wa are a staple of my goody draw, and should be in yours too.
There are plenty of different brands out there to chose from, but I bought my gold colour balls from Tabu in New Zealand for $30. I hope you get as much enjoyment out of yours as I do from mine. I’m sure you all will!
Written by Gia Joy for Tabu Adult Boutique.